The Connected Heart Project

A Private 12-Week Reconstruction Intensive for Christian Women Who Are Ready to Live With Internal Authority

This is a private, high-touch process designed to resolve trauma, dismantle limiting identity patterns, and rebuild you from the foundation up — spiritually and psychologically so you move through your life with clarity and internal authority.

There is a particular kind of woman who finds her way to me.

She is not dramatic. She is not chaotic. She is not incapable. She is strong. Faithful. Responsible.

And tired.

Not just physically tired. Internally tired. Tired of holding herself, and everyone else, together while something inside feels off.

When she begins talking, I can usually see it before she completes her first sentence. The internal pressure. The quiet self-doubt. The way she second-guesses decisions that should feel simple. The way her past still influences her present.

The "I know there is more, but I haven't been to reach it" look on her face.

She has built her life on rules she didn't write. Beliefs she absorbed. Expectations she learned to survive inside of. And now those rules are limiting how she moves.

And that is something we can change.

And once she sees that freedom is not only possible but within reach, she cannot unsee it. Once she tastes what her life could actually become, she cannot return to a small life.

She begins to want more and realizes that she can have it.

Not more effort. Not more coping. More truth. More steadiness. More of herself.

Before We Work Together

You move carefully.

You consider everyone else before yourself. You apologize when you haven’t done anything wrong.

You hesitate in rooms you belong in.


You ask for permission — sometimes out loud, sometimes silently.

You function. But you are not fully free.

After We Work Together

You stop negotiating your existence.

Your decisions land cleanly. You no longer over-explain. You do not apologize for being clear. You do not ask the room who you’re allowed to be.

You move with internal authority.

The weight leaves your face. You inhabit your life fully — without asking permission.

You no longer confuse keeping the peace with self-erasure.

What Internal Authority Looks Like in Real Life

When a woman no longer negotiates who she is, everything shifts.

At Home

You stop carrying more than your fair share — without guilt or long explanations. As you become the woman God always intended you to be, you create space for your husband to step into the man he was called to be. That is where real partnership begins.

At Work

You pause instead of automatically taking on more. You stop overcommitting to prove your worth. You lead from steadiness, not pressure.

In Church

You serve where God calls you — not where others expect you to. You stop confusing compliance with faithfulness.

With Family

You protect your time and energy without apology. You no longer default to being the emotional manager of everyone else.

With Friends

You stop rescuing, fixing, and over-functioning for other adults. Connection becomes mutual, not draining.

This is not about becoming harder. It is about becoming internally settled.

When you stop asking for permission to exist fully, your relationships recalibrate naturally.

Not because you demand it. But because you move differently.

You Don't Need Ongoing Therapy

You know, endless sessions and self-help courses that only make life a little more tolerable but don't really change your life.

I won't offer you an open-ended journey of “working on yourself.” Instead, I offer you a defined, 12-week reconstruction process that will radically transform you from the inside out. This will definitely change your life in every area.

How?

We go to the core of who you are. We dismantle those parts of your handed-to-you identity that do not belong. We rebuild your true identity from the foundation up but this time it is built on who Christ has made you to be, not what others told you that you were.

When this work is complete, women tell me:

“I finally feel like myself - the one I was always supposed to be.”

Not the anxious version. Not the striving version. Not the performing version.

The real one.

The Connected Heart Project

In The Connected Heart Project, I do not rush you. I listen.

I help you name what has limited you but you haven't been able to articulate. Or maybe you know exactly what needs to change but you need to know how so you can.

I reframe what feels like failure into understanding. And then — carefully, decisively — we rebuild.

Not with endless processing. Not with surface-level encouragement. With structured, focused reconstruction that finally resolves the past instead of revisiting it. And we do it quickly, completely, and permanently.

The first thing I notice is her face when our work is complete.

The weight is gone. The tension she carried without realizing it has lifted. She is no longer bracing. No longer performing. No longer holding herself together from the inside.

She is free to be herself — often for the first time in her life.

Her voice steadies. Her decisions land cleanly. Her presence shifts without her trying.

She doesn’t become someone new. She becomes unburdened from being who she thought she should be and others insisted she must be. And that changes everything.

This is the work I have devoted my life to.

For more than 25 years, I have watched women walk into my office carrying invisible weight — and walk out lighter, steadier, fully themselves.

Not a louder version of themselves, although now they have a true voice.
Not a harsher or reactionary version but calm, confident and powerful.
Not hardened by realizing what has held her back but released from its hold on her.

In other words - She is Free. To live her life as she designs it with the Lord. No apology and no asking for permission.

The Connected Heart Project

This is a 12-week intensive reconstruction process. When complete, you will move through your life differently — grounded, decisive, and internally stable.

I am opening space for two women who are ready to start.

Your Investment $4800

  • Six 3-hour intensive sessions (one every two weeks)

  • Direct access between sessions to maintain integration and momentum

  • The Connected Heart Project curriculum to support the work between meetings

  • Structured trauma resolution and identity reconstruction

  • Spiritual integration grounded in Christ-centered truth

If you are emotionally ready and financially able to invest in deep, decisive work, apply below. I personally review every application.

Meet Dr. Kim West

For more than 25 years, I have worked with Christian women navigating trauma, identity fractures, and internal instability that quietly limits their lives.

I am a trauma specialist, author, and mentor with a PhD and a Master of Divinity and decades of experience in spiritual formation and identity reconstruction work.

But credentials are not what define my work.

What defines it is this: I see what others miss.

Within minutes, I can often articulate the internal pattern a woman has been living with for years but has never fully named. I do not approach women as broken or deficient. I approach them as capable women operating from foundations that were never fully rebuilt.

And rebuilding foundations is precise work.

Over the years, I have developed a structured, focused process that allows women to resolve trauma decisively rather than managing it indefinitely. My work is not endless therapy. It is not surface-level coaching. It is reconstruction.

Women who complete this process do not simply “feel better.” They move differently. Their posture shifts. Their decisions land cleanly. Their relationships recalibrate. Their faith deepens without fear. They are no longer bracing internally.

At this stage in my life and career, I work selectively.

I am not here to rescue you.
I am here to rebuild you.

If you are ready for that level of work, I would be honored to walk with you.

Grounded and No Longer Bracing

“I didn’t realize how much tension I was carrying until it lifted. I’m not the same woman I was three months ago. I show up in my work and relationships without inhibition.”
— CHP Graduate

From Self-Sabotage to Partner in my Firm.

“I was working 90-hour weeks, leading a team, and quietly self-sabotaging every time I got close to advancement. Dr. Kim identified the internal fractures driving it. We resolved them. I made partner months later. The anxiety and second-guessing stopped. I move differently now.”
— Partner, International Firm

Freedom That Feels Permanent

“Dr. Kim doesn’t just uncover the lies — she removes them at the root. The shift was decisive. I feel steady in a way I never have before.”
— CHP Graduate

Now is the time to take charge of your life!

You will become the woman you were always meant to be - in weeks, not years.

You will take charge of your mind so that it empowers you instead of discourages you.

You will build an unshakeable foundation so that you can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams.

This Work is Selective

The Connected Heart Project is not ongoing therapy. It is a defined 12-week reconstruction process.

We identify the fracture. We resolve it. We rebuild your identity from the foundation up. Simple. Powerful. Clean.

I open space for two women each month.

If you are emotionally ready and financially able to invest in decisive work, apply below. I personally review every application.

I am very careful to work only with those who are ready to truly transform their lives.

Those few can expect to be set free of limitations, empowered to be and do God's calling and live the life they only dreamed was possible.

In Christ,

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